Notes from Monsignor Rob
Gratitude and Thoughts about Summer
Thanks to everyone who participated in last Sunday’s celebration. We welcomed Deacon Michael to ministry, we prayed with our bishop at Mass, and enjoyed each other’s company after the education and faith center blessing. The parish green looked spectacular and a good time was had by all. Special thanks to our readers, servers, greeters, choir and instrumentalists. Thanks also to Jeffrey Taveras for coordinating our festivities and bringing the musicians, ice cream truck, and games to our new landscape. Our Knights of Columbus and Chef Joe Laviola made the food and beverage experience a delight. Thanks be to God and
“Welcome Weekend”
This weekend we welcome Deacon Michael Crane to the staff of Saint Aloysius Parish. Michael will join Deacon Bill in the important ministry that deacons provide to our parish family. Deacons assist at Mass, witness marriages, baptize, and provide pastoral accompaniment. We have a thriving diaconal ministry in our diocese, and we are blessed with two gifted deacons here at Saint Aloysius. In addition to his parish responsibilities, Deacon Michael will serve as Vice Chancellor of the Diocese of Bridgeport. In that office, he will assist the Diocesan Tribunal in the processing of various cases and serve as a special
A Lot Going On – Thanks be to God!
Feast of Saint Aloysius The Feast of Saint Aloysius is June 21 on the Roman Church Calendar. This year, the 21st is the 12th Sunday in Ordinary Time, and therefore the saint’s feast would normally be skipped in deference to the Sunday; however, as a parish family, we will celebrate our patron, Aloysius Gonzaga. We will welcome Bishop Caggiano on that day who will celebrate a special Mass at Noon followed by the blessing of our new Education and Faith Center. Aloysius was a friend and selfless servant to the sick during the time of a devastating plague. Foregoing a
Real Presence
The column this week is taken largely from a reflection on the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ from the University of Notre Dame Alumni Association. I loved its straightforward approach and helpful teaching, so I thought I’d share it with you. Corpus Christi, the Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ, is something like the joyous bookend to Holy Thursday. At the end of Lent on Holy Thursday, we recalled the Last Supper, when Jesus instituted the Eucharist by promising us his presence in bread and wine. That meal foreshadowed his suffering and death. Anticipating
Trinity and Unity
Nearly every preacher approaches the Solemnity of the Most Holy Trinity with some trepidation, and I’m one of them. Lately I’ve come to a more meaningful embrace of the Father, Son, and Spirit, so permit me to share some of what I’ve come to understand. The teaching of the Trinity has its share of complexities: “one God, three Persons,” an “everlasting unity,” and so forth. The truth defies logic, but the beauty of it paints the story of our Christian lives: to know God as Father, Son, and Spirit is to live in the landscape of an undying and pervasive
Living Life in the Spirit
The feast of Pentecost brings us to that moment when the Holy Spirit descended on those gathered in the upper room. The apostles and Mary, the mother of Jesus, are transformed by the wind of fire of the Holy Spirit. The fear that brought them to the locked room turns to a Spirit-filled relief and peace because they know that Jesus will always be with them. The Holy Spirit breaks into our lives just at the right time: when we are lonely, lost, fearful, despairing, and uncertain. The Spirit prompts us to respond with confidence in God’s providence to the
Our Newest Deacon
I am happy to announce that Bishop Caggiano has assigned Michael Crane to serve as a deacon at Saint Aloysius parish. Michael and his wife Alycia are already a part of our Saint Aloysius family, and you will recognize Michael from his leadership in Stephen Ministry, Men’s Bible Study and the Men’s Spirituality ministry. Since he was installed as an acolyte (the last step before ordination to the diaconate), Michael has served in the sanctuary and as an ordinary minister of Holy Communion. A recently retired attorney, Michael also works as a colleague of mine in the bishop’s office where
Mary, Our Mother
In his 2014 homily on the Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God, Pope Francis said this of Mary: Mary is so closely united to Jesus because she received from Him the knowledge of the heart, the knowledge of faith, nourished by her experience as a mother and by her close relationship with her Son. The Blessed Virgin is the woman of faith who made room for God in her heart and in her plans; she is the believer capable of perceiving in the gift of her Son the coming of that ‘fullness of time’ in which God, by choosing the
Education and Faith Center Update
It’s been a while since I provided a report on our construction progress, and I am happy to share the news that the Education and Faith Center, the St. Carlo Acutis Chapel, and the “Parish Green” will be completed by May 31st! More than 600 families shared their treasure to realize the transformation of our campus and create beautiful space for worship, learning, recreation, and fellowship. Each of you will receive my personal thanks in a matter of days. Here’s a detailed report on the project: The Education and Faith Center will be home to the Saint Aloysius Catholic Preschool,
What Does It Take to Say “Yes”?
This Sunday the Church invites us to consider that we are called by God to live out our discipleship in a particular way. World Day of Prayer for Vocations places us with Jesus, the Good Shepherd, who desires that we “have life and have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10) God who is Shepherd gently leads us to the “safe pastures,” near “restful waters,” and out of the “dark valley” to a place of “goodness and kindness.” (Psalm 23) God’s plans for us are exquisite: “For I know well the plans I have in mind for you…plans for your welfare and
The Road to Emmaus
Did you ever feel like you were heading in the wrong direction? I’m not talking about taking the wrong road when you decide to ditch your GPS and rely on that inner sense of direction you thought you had. I’m referring to that feeling of fear that an idea, a choice, or a relationship was not going where you thought it would go. The sense of impending failure sparks self-doubt and hopelessness. The remedy for this kind of flawed navigation is to re-set, re-group, and check-in with the ones who can show us the better way – the people we
Celebrating the Mercy of God in the Risen Jesus
In this Sunday’s second reading, Peter reminds us of the great gift of mercy given to us by God through the Risen Christ: Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who in his great mercy gave us a new birth to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you who by the power of God are safeguarded through faith, to a salvation that is ready to be revealed in the final time. The meaning of “mercy” is rich
Resurrection and Hope
As I write this message on Palm Sunday, war is raging in the Middle East and the processions with palms that would normally take place near the near the Church of the Holy Sepulcher were not held out of precaution. In other parts of the world, places of worship are targets of attackers, and anxiety grows as the effects of world conflict spread beyond the battle fronts. Amid the unrest, Holy Week happens and the paschal mystery unfolds before us: the suffering, dying, and rising of Jesus. Scourging moves to crucifixion and death, but God’s power over death breaks through
Words from Bishop Caggiano
Dear Friends, Holy Week (March 29 – April 5, 2026) is the holiest time of the year. More than a remembrance of past events, it is a living encounter with Jesus Christ, who invites each of us into deeper intimacy with Him. In these sacred days, we walk with Him, from the Upper Room, to Calvary, to the silence of the tomb, and ultimately to the joy of the Resurrection. I warmly encourage you to take advantage of Reconciliation Monday (March 30, 2026), a beautiful opportunity to receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation. In this sacrament, Christ Himself meets us with
The Cross as Tree of Life
One of the many beautiful features of Saint Aloysius church is the larger-than-life crucifix that hangs in our sanctuary. So many have remarked about how much that wonderfully imposing cross means to them: how it helps them pray, how it gives them peace, how it reminds them of God’s love made manifest in the suffering and dying of His Son. In my own reflection on the Cross of Christ, I have always been struck by a verse from the Liturgy of the Hours: “See how the Cross of Christ becomes the tree of life.” It makes sense: the suffering and
The Expansive Meaning of Jesus’ Healing Ministry
When Jesus heals, he not only restores sight, cures leprosy, or raises up the suffering from their sickbeds. He does something truly life-giving: he brings the healed ones back into the community. In this Sunday’s Gospel, blind Bartimeus and his family are ostracized from society because it is thought that some sin caused the blindness. Jesus spends a great amount of time explaining to the crowd that sin didn’t cause the blindness, and that God’s desire is that Bartimeus and his family have their dignity and rightful place in the community restored. We are made for relationship, and when we
Living Water
I am amazed at the plethora of options for drinking water available these days, and I will confess that I have been trying out different brands in an attempt to find the one that will truly satisfy my taste and achieve a healthy hydration. I’ve ventured into the world of flavored, fruit-infused, ultra-filtered, straight-from-the-mountain-spring, sparkling, lightly-sweetened, distilled, purified, alkaline, and more. I’ve tried to balance my desire for flavor with the plain necessity of plain old H20 in order to live. To contextualize this in the current season of Lent, I can fast from food, but I must have water
Contemplating the Transfiguration of Jesus
Jesus took Peter, James and John his brother, and led them up a high mountain by themselves. And he was transfigured before them; his face shone like the sun and his clothes became white as light. Matthew 17:1-2. This Sunday’s Gospel brings us to the mountain where Jesus was transfigured before Peter, James, and John. For centuries, saints, scholars, bishops and bloggers have considered the meaning of this moment that is a preamble to Jesus’s suffering, dying, and rising. I’ve assembled below the thoughts of three Church leaders who have pondered this mountaintop event: Pope Leo XIV, Pope Francis, and
Why Ashes?
Ready or not, Lent begins this week. Our foreheads are smudged with ashes as a reminder that we should spend the 40 days working on a conversion of heart. When we make our decisions about what we may “give up” for Lent, the decision should be informed by our desire to align ourselves more closely to Christ who gave up his life for us. In his sacrifice on the Cross, it hurt Jesus to love us so much. We are not called to that same kind of sacrifice, but we are called to love. In our praying, fasting, and almsgiving,
Salt, Light, and Shrove Tuesday
This Sunday we are called to be “salt and light.” For centuries salt has been a staple for preserving, flavoring, and it even had its role in liturgical ritual. As we live out our discipleship, we need “salt” – the encouragement, support, and prayer that enable us to follow Jesus and bring light to others. As a parish family, we can be salt and light for one another and build up our community of faith. The ripple effect beyond the parish is real! February 18 is Ash Wednesday, and we will begin our Lenten journey. Next week our “Ashes to